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Mary Miller (Ramsden) Dreghorn

June 7, 1933

Obituary

Mary Miller Dreghorn, 87, died peacefully at home of cancer February 24, 2021 with her husband Richard at her side. Mary was born on June 7, 1933 in North Dighton, MA, the only daughter of the late Earl and Evelyn (MacDonald) Ramsden. 

She grew up in Taunton, and she and Dick went to the same schools. Mary and Dick dated for a while in high school, but life took her on another path as she left to attend Boston University, where she studied music. 

After college, Mary married Gordon Dean, a fellow musician at BU, and then focused on raising her family of four children, first in Ohio and then in Amherst, MA. Mary was the music teacher at Wildwood Elementary School in the 1970’s. She eventually earned her Master’s and later taught music education at UMass and URI. 

Mary was an educator who taught through music. She strongly believed that all the arts were important. Her elementary school students experienced music, art, and movement together as they wrote and performed stunning operettas, such as adaptations of Mozart’s The Magic Flute, and Anton Rubinstein’s The Demon. She also was immensely curious and enthusiastic and brought those traits into her teaching through discovery, imagination, play, and creativity. 

You always knew where you stood with Mary. She let you know her thoughts and opinions. Only 4 feet 9 ¾” tall at her peak, she was always easy to locate: her voice carried through loud and clear. With her small body and huge voice, she could control an entire auditorium without the use of a microphone. 

Dick and Mary reunited after both divorced. They married in 1981 and settled in North Stonington, CT. 

When she took on a project, Mary jumped in with her whole self. Why be merely a weaver when you can also raise the sheep and learn to sheer, card, dye, and spin? But sheep weren’t the only animals around: chickens, dogs (especially Collies and English Pointers), cats, canaries, gerbils, hamsters, and a rabbit made up the household at various times. 

She loved doing things with her hands -- gardening, quilting, and crafting poems, stories, and books for her grandchildren. In recent years, rug hooking became her main enjoyment. She hosted a group of “hookers” who met every week at her home until the pandemic made that impossible. Her magnum opus remains unfinished: a beautiful scene of butterflies in a butterfly bush. In the time she spent on it, most people would have completed four rugs. But her desire to “get it just right” meant that butterflies were ripped out, redone, and redone again. 

Mary is survived by her husband Dick, 6 children from her blended family: Allen Dean of Byfield, MA, Joy (Dean) O’Connor and husband Bill of Londonderry, NH, Laurence Dean and wife, Karin Hammer-Williamson of Essex, VT, Evelyn (Dean) Casey and husband John of Westfield, MA. Elizabeth (Dreghorn) Lynch of Taunton, MA, and Kim (Dreghorn) Skaves and husband David of Ellsworth, ME, her 10 grandchildren: Ryan O’Connor, Hailey Stewart and husband Andrew, Justin O’Connor, Liam O’Connor, Drew Dean, Henry Dean, Matthew Skaves and wife Lexi Lowell, Alyssa Skaves and husband Tom Enkosky, Caitlin Lynch, Michael Lynch, 4 great grandchildren: Leland, Lulu, Mary and Malala. 

The family sincerely thanks the staff of St. Joseph HomeCare and Hospice for the compassionate and attentive care they showed Mary. Memorial contributions may be made to the St Joseph’s Hospice fund, https://www.stjoeshealing.org/support-our-mission/donate-online , 207. 907.1000 or to The Chorus of Westerly RI, https://www.chorusofwesterly.org/donate-support , 401.596.8663

The family is having a short (about 30-minute) service at the gravesite at the Mayflower Hill Cemetery in Taunton, MA, Wednesday September 29 at 11:00 AM. After the service, we will gather nearby at the Stoneforge Publick House restaurant in Raynham, MA for a buffet luncheon and companionship to celebrate Mary's life. We hope you will join us and share your stories there with us.

Local arrangements are under the care and direction of the Sowiecki-Snyder Home for Funerals & Cremation Services, 69 West Britannia Street, Taunton.

Notes of condolence and memories may be shared at www.birminghamfuenralhome.com or at www.sowieckifh.com

 

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Services

Graveside Service
Wednesday
September 29, 2021

11:00 AM
Mayflower Hill Cemetery
235 Broadway
Taunton, MA 02780
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Reception
Wednesday
September 29, 2021

12:00 PM
Stoneforge Publick House Restaurant
90 Paramount Drive
Raynham, MA 02767
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Please note
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